I searched the internet for a contract the Conqueror and I could use to formalise our D/s arrangement and struggled to find one so we wrote our own! Posted here in case it helps form a template for anyone else …
This contract is provided as a secure and binding agreement which defines in specific terms the relationship and interaction between two individuals, hereafter termed D and s. This agreement is not legally binding. This agreement must be entered voluntarily, but cannot be broken except under the conditions stated herein. The contract will run from the date of signature until January 1 2017 at which point the contract will be reviewed.
1. Role of s: s agrees to submit completely to D in all ways when together. There are no boundaries of place, time, or situation in which s may willfully refuse to obey the directive of D without risking punishment, except in situations where the veto (see section 1.1) applies. s agrees to please D to the best of her ability, in that she now exists solely for the pleasure of D, her body now belonging to him.
1.1 Veto of s: Where appropriate s holds veto power over any command given, at which time she may rightfully refuse to obey that command. This power may only be invoked under the following circumstances, or where agreed by both:
a. Where said command conflicts with any existing laws and may lead to fines, arrest, or prosecution of s
b. Where said command may cause extreme damage to her life, such as losing her job, causing family stress, etc.
c. Where said command may cause permanent bodily harm (see 4) to s
d. Where said command may cause undue psychological trauma to s
1.2 Safe word: At all times s has access to a safe word to use if she feels emotionally or physically unable to continue. The use of the safe word will never result in reprisal or resentment and will stop the activity in question immediately and without hesitation.
2. Role of D: D accepts full responsibility of the body and submission of s, to do with as he sees fit, under the provisions determined in this contract. D agrees to care s, to arrange for and ensure her total safety and well-being whilst together. D also accepts the commitment to treat s properly, to train, punish, love, and use her.
3. Punishment: s agrees to accept any punishment that D decides to inflict, as outlined in Appendix B (List of Punishments), if such punishments are required due to transgressions of the rules outlined in Appendix A (List of Rules). Rules are not to be undue or excessive, with the caveat that they must serve as a lesson required, whether responsive or pre-emptive.
3.1 Rules of Punishment: Punishment is subject to certain rules designed to protect s from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm (see 4). Punishment must not incur permanent bodily harm, or the following forms of abuse:
a. Blood may not be drawn at any time. Punishment must stop immediately if blood is drawn
b. Burning the body
c. Drastic loss of circulation
d. Causing internal bleeding
e. Loss of consciousness
f. Withholding of any necessary materials, such as food, water, or sunlight for extended periods of time
g. Bruising or marks must be arranged in advance to avoid conflict with s modelling
4. Permanent Bodily Harm: Since the body of s now belongs to D, it his responsibility to protect that body from permanent bodily harm when together. Should s ever come to permanent bodily harm during the course of punishment or in any other related activity, whether by intention or accident, it will be grounds for immediate termination of this contract, should s so desire. Permanent bodily harm shall be determined as:
b. Any damage that involves loss of mobility or function, including broken bones.
c. Any permanent marks on the skin, including scars, burns, or tattoos, unless accepted by s
d. Any loss of hair, unless accepted by s
e. Any piercing of the flesh which leaves a permanent hole, unless accepted by s
5. Others: s may not seek any other lover or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way without permission, with the sole exception of Z. Should minor infractions occur s must notify D in due haste and accept whatever punishment he sees appropriate. A major infraction will be considered a breach of contract, and will result in extreme punishment. D may accept other no other submissives or lovers for the duration of the contract, and to do so will immediately offer s the opportunity to terminate the contract.
6.1. Appointment Agreement: All appointments and specific requests are to be made through the website. Should any specific additional services be requested, either specifically or speculatively to add to the menu of options this should be specified also. Failure to request/rule out any of the listed services at the point of agreeing the appointment will result in the full range of activities being available to D. Calendar updates or a shared calendar is to be used to ensure that availability is made clear, to allow for surprise, unscheduled opportunities arise.
6.2 Appointment Times: To ensure the safe entry and withdrawal from submissive space for s, D agrees to schedule time accordingly to monitor s during both. Punishment will only be administered when the appointment is for 2 hours or more. Anything shorter with involve play and hard fucking only.
7. Alteration of Contract: This contract may not be altered, except when both D and s agree. If the contract is altered, the new contract shall be printed and signed, and then the old contract must be destroyed.
8. Commencement of Contract: This contract will start with immediate effect upon signatures from both parties. Accrued punishment of 1 minor transgression (5 spanks to each cheek while gripping ankles) and 4 serious (15 lashes of belt on each cheek, 5 lashes on inside of thigh, and 10 lashes of the cane on each cheek) will be administered by D at next appropriate appointment
Appendix A – List of Rules
Transgressions will be placed in one of three categories (minor, serious, major), and will draw comparatively severe punishments. Repeated transgression in one class will result in punishment classes escalating. For example, repeated minor disobedience will quickly escalate to serious punishment. Should this not be effective then the punishment may be escalated again. It should be noted that three instances of minor transgressions – unrelated or not – escalates said punishment to a serious punishment, if so decided by D. Equally three serious transgressions to a major punishment, should D wish to do so.
D takes full responsibility for keeping track of punishments. He will share with s at the time of punishment only the nature of the transgression and the punishment he will deliver i.e. You will receive 10 lashes on each cheek with the cane for lateness. s will count the lashes as instructed by D.
- Lateness of less than 10 minutes
- Referring to yourself, or being referred to by D, as S rather than s
- Failure to respect D when together
- Failure to pleasure D as instructed
- Failure to present herself in a state of either total or partial undress at the start of each day possible
- Climaxing when apart without permission
- Failure to present herself as agreed in public
- Failure to treat D with his deserved respect and gravitas over text conversations
- Lateness of over 10 minutes but less than 45 minutes
- Climaxing when together without permission
- Failure to present herself as agreed when making appointment
- Failure to share at least one climax each week (either by audio or video)
- Lateness of over 45 minutes
- Refusal of acceptable and reasonable request when together
- Cancellation of appointment
Appendix B – List of Punishments
Punishments will be placed in one of 3 categories (minor, serious, major) based on their repetition, the tool used, and the strength applied. Depending on growing experience, tolerance and expertise these classes and the punishments therein may be revised from time to time.
- 10 spanks over the knee with open palm in each cheek, minimum strength 5
- 5 lashes of belt on each arse cheek, minimum strength 5, gripping ankles
- 2 lashes of the cane on each arse cheek, minimum strength 5, gripping ankles
- Nipple torture, 3 minutes, minimum strength 5
- 15 lashes of the belt on each cheek, minimum strength 7, braced against table/wall/kitchen counter
- 5 lashes of the cane on each arse cheek, minimum strength 7, braced against table/wall/kitchen counter
- 10 kicks to each arse cheek, minimum strength 7, supplicant on floor
- 5 lashes of belt to the inside of each thigh, minimum strength 5, spread wide on table
- Nipple torture, 5 minutes, minimum strength 7
- 30 lashes of the belt on each arse cheek, minimum strength 7, bound to table
- 15 lashes of the cane on each arse cheek, minimum strength 7, bound to table
- 30 minutes of climax denial, bound to table 15 minutes facing the wall, stripped and gagged
- 5 lashes of belt to the inside of each thigh, minimum strength 7, bound to table
- 5 lashes of the cane on the sole of each foot, minimum strength 5, hog tied on table
- Nipple torture, 5 minutes, minimum strength 8
Appendix C: Hard & Soft Limits
Free to use: scarves, ties, rope, leather cuffs, chains, gags, metal handcuffs
Soft limits: spreader bars, shackles, suspension, cages
Hard limits: body bags, straight-jackets, plastic over my face
Free to use: indoor
Soft limits: outdoor – location needs to be agreed in advance
Hard limit: in deliberate public view
Free to use: spanking, paddle, belt, biting. pinching
Soft limits: cane, flogger, whip, riding crop, other utensils, manual removal of pubic hair
Hard limit: face slapping
Parts of body for punishment:
Free to use: arse, thighs, back
Soft limits: breasts, cunt, feet
Hard limit: face
Free to use: blindfolds, climax denial, hair pulling, ice
Soft limits: nipple torture, clit torture, hot wax, teasing with knives, choking
Hard limits: cutting, water torture, needles, asphyxiation simulated or otherwise
Free to use: vaginal sex, oral sex, anal sex, anal plug, multiple penetration, toys, sexting, FaceTime, foot/shoe fucking, vaginal fisting
Soft limits: directed masturbation (performing!), fantasy rape, use of utensils / objects
Hard limits: group sex, anal fisting
Free to use: dirty words, kneeling, crawling, leash, control appearance i.e clothing, underwear etc., control behaviour, control eating/drinking
Soft limits: spitting, verbal abuse associated with value (use with extra caution), using toys secretly in public, photos/videos
Hard limits: golden shower, public humiliation or display, branding, piercing, tattooing